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Sunday, March 31, 2013

NYTimes Review - 10:14 AM 3/31/2013

NYTimes Review - 10:14 AM 3/31/2013

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“There aren't that many places left in the world that are so unexplored. Nobody'...
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“There aren't that many places left in the world that are so unexplored. Nobody's come here for the last 30 years,” says Christopher Zurcher, founder of Afghan Ski Challenge. In one part of Afghanistan that is actively promoting adventure tourism, “you're the first one on the slope everyday,” Mr. Zurcher said.


Video: Skiing Afghanistan
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Bamian Province is the only place in Afghanistan that is actively promoting adventure tourism. Many residents lost what little they had under the Taliban and are wary about what the future might hold.
Week in Pictures for March 29
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Subjects include the opening of amusement parks in Coney Island, a dodgeball marathon and the Bloomberg administration “bullpen” at City Hall.
Around The Block: Another Sport Franchise for Ford
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The 2013 Ford Explorer Sport is a seven-seat S.U.V. that lives up to its name, with more power and better handling than the base Explorer.

The Caucus: Bipartisan Rebuke for Republican Congressman Who Used Slur
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Representative Don Young of Alaska apologized for using the slur to describe Hispanic farm workers who picked tomatoes on his father’s ranch.

ArtsBeat: The Week in Culture Pictures, March 29
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A slide show of photographs of cultural highlights from this week.

Ex-Atlanta Schools Chief Charged in Cheating Scandal
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A third-grade teacher’s 2010 choice to aid a state investigator helped lead to the indictment Friday of a former superintendent and 34 others in a vast alleged cheating scheme.

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A grand jury has indicted Beverly L. Hall, the former superintendent of the Atla...
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A grand jury has indicted Beverly L. Hall, the former superintendent of the Atlanta Public Schools, and 34 other teachers and administrators on racketeering charges connected to one of the largest test-score cheating scandals in the country.


Former School Chief in Atlanta Indicted in Cheating Scandal
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A grand jury indicted Beverly L. Hall, the former superintendent of the Atlanta Public Schools, and other educators on charges connected to one of the largest test-score cheating scandals in the country.
NPR to Drop ‘Talk of the Nation’
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NPR will end the call-in show “Talk of the Nation” this summer and urge radio stations to replace it with the Boston-based program “Here and Now,” which has a magazine style.
Letters: Reducing Gun Violence: What Works?
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Readers react to a column by David Brooks questioning the effectiveness of gun control.

City Room: New Police Chief Confident He Can Handle Job
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Philip Banks III, the newly minted head of the Police Department, said he would strive to empower people in the community and work with them to further reduce crime.

Op-Ed Contributor: Nature’s Case for Same-Sex Marriage
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The biological evidence right outside the Supreme Court’s chambers makes a natural case for gay marriage.

U.S. Military Deaths in Afghanistan
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The Department of Defense has identified 2,174 American service members who have died as a part of the Afghan war and related operations.

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A Word With: Jeremy Barnes and Heather Trost: A Hawk and a Hacksaw Discuss Eastern European Style
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On the eve of a European tour, the members of a Hawk and a Hacksaw discuss their Eastern European influences and their new album, inspired by a 1960s Soviet film.
After Cyberattack, Sven Olaf Kamphuis Is at Heart of Investigation
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Although Sven Olaf Kamphuis says he did not orchestrate a large-scale cyberattack this week and has not beencharged, he is at the heart of an international investigation. 

Op-Ed Columnist: Marriage Looks Different Now
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We’re seeing a revolution with wider ripples than its supporters admit.
Opinion: America the Innovative?
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As China becomes richer, is it destined to pass the United States as the world’s most inventive nation?
In Israel's columns, frescoes, and desert palaces, Herod the Great lives on
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King Herod the Great is best known to Christians for trying to kill the infant Jesus. But he also left his mark with stunning architectural achievements, as seen in a new exhibit at the Israel Museum.
    
Op-Ed Columnist: Will Gays Be Punished for Success?
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Once more, the Supremes are singing: You can’t hurry love.

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Economic View: A Sustainable Federal Budget Should Survive Any Storm
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President Obama’s goal for the federal budget is a “fiscally sustainable path.” But he may be applying too easy of a standard for achieving it.

Fundamentally: A Muted Recovery May Mean a Longer Bull Market
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Bull markets typically do not die of old age, but from the side effects of a lengthy rebound.

Web Privacy, and How Consumers Let Down Their Guard
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Consumers insist that they treasure their online privacy. But their mouse clicks tell a far different tale, as the experiments of a behavioral economist show.
Preoccupations: Why Innovators Get Better With Age
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The most common image of an innovator is of a kid developing a great idea in a garage. But that is the exception to the rule.

Novelties: Robots and Humans, Learning to Work Together
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New factory robots, designed to work and play well with others, no longer have to be fenced in to protect workers from accidents.

Sundown in America
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Eight decades of bipartisan Keynesian spending and Federal Reserve money-printing have left us exhausted and bankrupt.

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U.S.: Hillary Clinton: Looking Ahead?
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The Times's Jim Rutenberg on why rumors are running rampant that the former secretary of state will go for the presidency in 2016.

A Hillary Clinton in ‘Transition’ Has Rivals and Donors Frozen in Place
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The early maneuvering for the 2016 presidential race on the Democratic side has been stalled by questions about Hillary Clinton’s intentions.

Satirist arrested: Egypt's rulers not amused by Jon Stewart's kind of humor
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Egypt arrested Bassem Youssef, a popular TV comedian who modeled his show after Jon Stewart's Daily Show. His arrest is seen as aimed at silencing critics of Islamist President Mohammed Morsi.
    
Pope Appeals for Peace in Easter Message
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Pope Francis used his first Easter Sunday address to call for peace in the Middle East and a diplomatic solution to the tension on the Korean peninsula.

In the Holy Land's columns, frescoes, and desert palaces, Herod the Great lives on
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King Herod is best known to Christians for trying to kill the infant Jesus. But he also left his mark with stunning architectural achievements, as seen in a new exhibit at the Israel Museum.
    
Puerto Rico is the new haven for avoiding U.S. taxes - Lancaster Newspapers
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Puerto Rico is the new haven for avoiding U.S. taxes
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Puerto Rico is an unincorporated territory of the United States. It has a special relationship with the United States. Puerto Rico has U.S. citizenship for its residents, but it has its own Olympic team and a tax system that allows individuals and ...
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Friday, March 29, 2013

PUERTO RICO NEWS: 9:22 AM 3/29/2013

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Thursday, March 28, 2013

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

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NEWS: World News Review - 8:17 AM 3/27/2013 - Mike Nova'...

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PUERTO RICO NEWS: 3.27.13 - Scammer takes Univ. of Puerto Rico for $...

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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

A 50-State Ruling - NYT Editorial


The New York Times


March 25, 2013

A 50-State Ruling


California’s Proposition 8 rewrote the state’s Constitution so that “only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California.” The 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, for purposes of any federal law, defined the word marriage to mean “only a legal union between one man and one woman.”
The Supreme Court will hear arguments on challenges to Proposition 8 on Tuesday and Defense of Marriage on Wednesday. In both cases, the court should rule that the Constitution prohibits the federal government and every state from defining the fundamental right of marriage so narrowly and fully protects the liberty of same-sex couples.
When Proposition 8 was on the California ballot in 2008, the official pamphlet explaining the initiative said that it did not “take away any rights or benefits of gay or lesbian domestic partnerships,” which have the “ ‘same rights, protections, and benefits’ as married spouses.”
As the California Supreme Court said about legal attacks on same-sex marriage, the point of denying gay marriages was to say officially that these relationships were not of “comparable stature or equal dignity” to opposite-sex marriages. The intent was to stigmatize them, enshrine discrimination in law and encourage discrimination against gay men, lesbians and same-sex couples. The federal Defense of Marriage Act does the same, with the same effects. And in depriving same-sex couples and their children of federal recognition and benefits, it fails to meet any test under the Constitution.
In the Proposition 8 case, it is widely agreed that the Supreme Court has four options, if it does not, unconscionably, uphold the initiative. It could allow same-sex marriage only in California or it could dismiss the case on grounds that the initiative’s sponsors had no standing to bring the appeal (by not ruling on the merits, the result would very likely be to allow same-sex couples to marry in California).
The court could also decide that California and the seven other states that allow civil unions equivalent to marriage cannot deny same-sex couples the status of marriage. But accepting the “eight state solution” would be a half-step and would have to be revisited in the near future.
The soundest approach is to recognize same-sex marriage broadly as a matter of equality under the Constitution — and therefore compel all states as well as the federal government to recognize this right. In the 2003 case Lawrence v. Texas, which struck down a Texas sodomy law as violating constitutionally protected liberty, Justice Anthony Kennedy, writing for the court, said, “As the Constitution endures, persons in every generation can invoke its principles in their own search for greater freedom.”
Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people have been seeking the freedom to live openly, to be treated equally and to marry as they choose. They have helped bring about a major shift in public opinion in the past decade in favor of same-sex marriage; they are now joined by leading Republicans and many of America’s most important companies in making the powerful case for marriage equality before the court.
Support now for same-sex marriage — more than half in favor, about one-third against — is roughly the public divide on the question of public school desegregation in 1954 when the Supreme Court outlawed segregated schools in Brown v. Board of Education. But the court’s call then for states to end racial discrimination in public schools “with all deliberate speed” was a big error. It gave states far too much latitude to move slowly and gave them an excuse for resistance, which delayed desegregation in many school districts for many years.
The court should avoid that kind of error in the same-sex-marriage cases. It should broadly declare that under the Constitution the right to marry applies equally to all couples, period, and that this principle applies to the federal government and every state.

Monday, March 25, 2013

Homosexuality and Christianity

Homosexuality and Christianity

Psychohistorically, Christianity can be viewed as a religion of heterosexual protest and domination; as a reaction to its predecessor and precursor: deeply homosexually tinged, although universal (as a cult of beauty and masculine strength, a cult of male warrior-statesman, introduced by Hadrian as a unifying ideological "mortar" for the Empire), religion of Antinous. The issue and subject of sexuality is one of the central in both religions and in the subsequent developments of religious thought.

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Mike Nova: Antinopolis has to be restored and rebuild and made into a place of pilgrimage, modern worship, scientific and religious scholarship, cultural, and sports and athletic center.


Mike Nova: Antinopolis has to be restored and rebuild and made into a place of pilgrimage, modern worship, scientific and religious scholarship, cultural, and sports and athletic center for both straights and gays. It will have enormous curative, normalizing effect on both the world at large and surrounding Muslim regions, including first of all the tumultuous and searching Egypt in transition. 
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Antinopolis Today

Today not much remains of the ancient city of Antinopolis. In its place, El Sheikh Ibada, a small mud village surrounded by the crumbled ruins of what was once a city of worship. There is not much left to see of the ancient city, for many structures were robbed out to make other buildings, such as sugar factories for El-Rodah, but visitors can still see the remains of the Roman Circus and ruins of a few temples. (Stillwell, 1976). There are no current archaeological projects taking place around the former city of Antinous.
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Photo: Fotógrafos rusos escalan ilegalmente la Gran Pirámide de Egipto para tomar varias fotografías. Via Reddit. Foto 2

Fotógrafos rusos escalan ilegalmente la Gran Pirámide de Egipto para tomar varias fotografías. Via RedditFoto 2



Did Antinous climb the Great Pyramid when Hadrian took him to Egypt in 130 AD? How could he resist? Today it is "illegal" ... but Egypt is in such chaos that a little "baksheesh" (bribe) allows you to get up to the top ... even at night ... like this Russian photographer. The view must have been as breath-taking for Antinous as it is for us ... the lights of the Nile Valley go right up to the desert ... no better metaphor for the divide between the "Land of the Living" and the "Land of the Dead" ... only in Egypt is the dividing line so clear ....
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Friday, March 22, 2013

NEWS: 5:16 PM 3/22/2013

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Becoming the All-Terrain Human - www.nytimes.com


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“The important thing is not to catch something. The important thing,” Kilian Jornet said, “is moving.” Discover what one elite endurance athlete can tell us about the human body’s potential.


Becoming the All-Terrain Human
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For Kilian Jornet, running across the Pyrenees is like a jog in the park. What one elite endurance athlete can tell us about the human body’s potential.

The suspected shooter, a male Marine, apparently shot himself.


The Marine Base Quantico, spokesman Lt. Agustin Solivan briefs reporters following a shooting incident on the base Friday March 22, 2013. Three people, including the suspect, were killed in the shooting at Marine Base Quantico, Solivan said early Friday. He said they believe the suspect, whose name wasn't released, is a staff member at the officer candidate school at the base. No information on the victim was immediately released. (AP Photo/Matthew Barakat)The suspected shooter, a male Marine, apparently shot himself.

MARCH 17th is the anniversary of the death of Marcus Aurelius and we in the Religion of Antinous set aside this day each year to remember the last of the great philosopher-emperors


Of Marcus Aurelius - ANTINOUS THE GAY GOD


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MARCH 17th is the anniversary of the death of Marcus Aurelius and we in the Religion of Antinous set aside this day each year to remember the last of the great philosopher-emperors, and a man who knew both Hadrian and ... -http://antinousgaygod.blogspot.com/2013/03/the-apotheosis-of-marcus-aurelius-march.html
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The American Academy of Pediatrics, the nation’s largest pediatricians group, came out in support of same-sex marriage and adoption on Thursday in a new policy statement | Parenting.com: AAP Endorses Gay Marriage. So Why Am I So Annoyed? | Alan Shayne: Free the Children


via Queerty by Lester Brathwaite on 3/22/13
gay-parentsThe American Academy of Pediatrics, the nation’s largest pediatricians group, came out in support of same-sex marriage and adoption on Thursday in a new policy statement.
Just a week before the Supreme Court hears two marriage equality cases, the AAP noted that a parent’s sexual orientation is not as important to a child as the family’s well-being and social and economic resources. The new national policy also advocates for the adoption or foster care of children by couples or individuals regardless of sexual orientation.
“Children thrive in families that are stable and that provide permanent security, and the way we do that is through marriage,” said Benjamin Siegel, MD, FAAP, chair of the AAP Committee on Psychosocial Aspects of Child and Family Health, and a co-author of the policy statement. “The AAP believes there should be equal opportunity for every couple to access the economic stability and federal supports provided to married couples to raise children.”
According to the policy:
Scientific evidence affirms that children have similar developmental and emotional needs and receive similar parenting whether they are raised by parents of the same or different genders. If a child has 2 living and capable parents who choose to create a permanent bond by way of civil marriage, it is in the best interests of their child(ren) that legal and social institutions allow and support them to do so, irrespective of their sexual orientation. If 2 parents are not available to the child, adoption or foster parenting remain acceptable options to provide a loving home for a child and should be available without regard to the sexual orientation of the parent(s).
Critical factors that affect the normal development and mental health of children are parental stress, economic and social stability, community resources, discrimination, and children’s exposure to toxic stressors at home or in their communities — not the sexual orientation of their parents, the AAP said in a statement.
“The AAP has long been an advocate for all children, and this updated policy reflects a natural progression in the Academy’s support for families,” said Ellen Perrin, MD, FAAP, co-author of the policy statement. “If a child has two loving and capable parents who choose to create a permanent bond, it’s in the best interest of their children that legal institutions allow them to do so.”
 



via Gay/Lesbian News on 3/22/13
The U.S. Supreme Court on Tuesday and Wednesday will confront two distinct gay marriage cases, which together pose some very sensitive questions.

via Gay/Lesbian News on 3/22/13
Gay and lesbian couples should be able to get married for the health and well-being of their children and families, the nation's leading group for pediatricians said on Thursday in a policy statement that also backs adoption rights.

via Gay/Lesbian News on 3/22/13
Gays and lesbians have adopted the phrase "it gets better" as a kind of slogan to assure young people that life won't always be so tough.
Looking back, life has gotten dramatically better for LGBT people in the United States in a very short period of time. The modern gay rights movement began less than 50 years ago. Today, supporters of same-sex marriage outnumber opponents.
Now, the Supreme Court is about to hear two big cases that could shift the landscape for gay rights again.



via Gay Voices by Parenting.com on 3/22/13
By Erik Botsford
I want to be happy about yesterday's news that the American Academy of Pediatrics has reaffirmed its support of gay marriage, I really do. I'm a gay dad of twin 5-year old boys, so it's fair to say that this news resonates with me. But something about this has me bothered.
Look, don't get me wrong; I'm always happy when another voice speaks out in support of gay people and especially gay families, especially one as respected and influential as the AAP. They're a little late to the game when it comes to national medical organizations supporting gay marriage (psychologists voiced their support in 2004, psychiatrists followed in 2005, and physicians in 2011), but their support comes close on the heels of last year's endorsement of gay marriage by national nursing and family physician groups. Plus, yesterday's announcement is a clear, full-throated reaffirmation of the benefits of gay marriage to both parents and children. It goes so far as to urge its member pediatricians to advocate on behalf of marriage equality.
So why am I so grumpy?
Plus: Girls, Gays Invited to Join Alternative Scouting Troop
Because the AAP has based its policy statement on a review of 30 years of family research looking at gay and lesbian families and much of that research leaves a bad taste in my mouth. For decades, researchers have picked apart the psyches of children and parents of gay families in an effort to determine if our family structure is harmful to our children. Reading the results of these studies, with their dispassionate determinations that an "emerging consensus" among researchers that children from gay families are not "disadvantaged in any significant respect," leaves me with two reactions.
My first reaction to these results: Duh. If kids are raised in a home with adults that love them -- be it a straight couple, or two moms, or a single dad, or their grandparents, or a foster family -- it shouldn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that they'll do OK.
Plus: AAP Strongly Supports Gay Marriage
My second reaction is more complex. On the one hand, being someone with a degree in zoology, I understand the need for quantifiable results. They're especially important when opponents of gay marriage regularly trot out pseudo-science studies and flawed research in support of their cause. But the idea that families like mine are being studied and judgments on the fitness of dads like me are being made just rubs me the wrong way, even when the results support my family.
I don't need anyone to weigh in on my ability to parent my kids or whether my kids are well-adjusted and emotionally healthy. To even attempt to make that kind of determination implies that the fact that I'm gay has the potential to harm my kids. What other group of parents is subjected to such scrutiny? The closest analogy I can think of is children raised in multiracial families and the research in this area practically gushes over the enriching and rewarding experience for multiracial children. In contrast, the AAP statement limits its endorsement of gay marriage to saying only that our kids don't appear to be damaged by our same-gender family structure.
Plus: New Study Shows It Does Get Better for Gay Youth
If you want to know the things that truly imperil my children and leave them disadvantaged, I'd ask you look outside my family to the culture of our country. For example, how about talking about the airport officer that forces my husband and me to pass through immigration separately because we're "not a family"? Since it's tax season, why not consider that I'm about to file my 25th federal tax return as a "single man," even though I've been married for 11 years (two of them legally)? Or how about the people in the car that yell "faggot" at us as we push our stroller down the street? Each of these daily realities has vastly more potential to harm my kids than the fact that they have two dads.
When it comes to being a parent, I can tell you that I'm not much different than anyone else. This morning I made some pancakes with mango for the boys. I was called in to inspect (and clean up) an aiming problem involving the toilet. I defused some conflicts involving the iPad. I haven't yet had time to shower or eat my own breakfast.
I'm happy that the AAP has joined the chorus of voices validating my family. I just wish sometimes that I lived in a world that didn't need 30 years of research to figure out that I'm a good dad.
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via Gay Voices by Alan Shayne on 3/22/13
I think the chances of the Supreme Court Justices ever seeing this article are one in nine million, which is the estimated number of gay people in the United States. But I feel compelled to write it because I'm afraid some of the most important reasons to endorse same-sex marriage will be overlooked. There is no question that the Fourteenth Amendment states that we all have equal protection under the law, so it will be hard to justify taxation that favors a man and woman who are married, but not two men or two women who are married. The Justices will thoroughly cover this issue as Edith Windsor is suing the United States for not honoring her marriage to Thea Spyer and so taxing her estate unfairly. They will also rule on Proposition 8 in California that has stopped same-sex marriage there. But my concern is that the true equality that same-sex people must have will be discussed only in a legal sense and that the emotional and psychological underpinnings that affect every gay will not be considered, as they should be.
When I heard that the Supreme Court was going to take up the two cases of same-sex marriage, I began to think about what their decision would mean to me and every gay person in America if they rule in favor of same-sex marriage. What would "equality" really mean to a gay person? As a start -- and it is a life saving start -- it will mean a safer, happier, more normal future for young gay men and women as they make their way into American society as equals.
When I grew up as a gay boy, I never felt like an equal to the other kids. The name-calling and abuse that I suffered would never have been as strong if gay people had had equality at that time in our country. In the 1930's, a gay person was either a freak or a figure of fun. The average person had no idea what same-sex love was and if they did, it was based on hearing about Oscar Wilde and his infamous jury trial and conviction. There were no books for a teenager to read and nothing was ever mentioned in the newspapers. The movies made fun of homosexuals painting them as effeminate or campy. There were no role models for young gays and no counselors. You carefully guarded your secret. You couldn't possibly speak about it to your parents or even to your friends. You learned to lower your voice and watch all your actions: walk without swaying too much, not use your hands more than necessary. You tried to put on a veneer of masculinity so no one would know. But there were still the taunts when you dropped the football or couldn't run as fast as the others. Then, as you grew older, the realization that you could be put in prison if you were discovered. Police made extra money by threatening gay men with exposure and then letting them off for a price. The humiliation and hiding drove many to suicide -- I only survived because I didn't finally have the courage to jump out of the window. And then, later, the pain of being an adult listening to all the slurs and jokes about gays and being afraid to refute them lest you be discovered. In my case, as a young actor, I heard agents and casting people saying about other actors "don't send him for that role, he's queer," so I had to hide even more.
I had to pretend to be someone I wasn't. I dated women, had affairs with them, lived with an actress for five years, even married to fit into society, and then went into years of analysis to get "cured", but I wasn't being true to myself. There were many gay men who married and had children and yet continued relationships with other men, when they could sneak away from the office for a few hours. I always thought how sad that was because their wives were not getting the love they had been promised and the husbands had to deal with their guilt.
As time went on, the repression of gays burst open and exploded in public parades that said finally, "Look at us, we're here." By that time I had found a man I loved and would live with for fifty years although we hid for many of them. Today we are married as are many others who live in nine states and the District of Columbia. Look how far we've come. Isn't that enough? No.What about the gay people who live in the other states? They can't be married and none of us, married or not, has equal rights and equal taxes that are the same as other married people.
But what concerns me most are the gay children growing up, the teens beginning to feel their sexuality, the young adults who don't believe they can have a happy life with someone of the same sex (which has driven some of them to suicide), the older gays who've never had a meaningful relationship because they don't believe it is possible in our country. All these people need to know that being born gay is right, that it is as much a part of life as being born with blue eyes or brown hair. But this can only happen when our federal government has heeded the Constitution and endorsed same-sex marriage. It's not just about taxes and marriage licenses and allowing gays to adopt, although those issues must be addressed and approved. It is about young people and their feeling of belonging. We are horrified at the slaughter of the children in Newtown. This was a madman and at least he is now dead and can do no more harm. We must nurture and protect our children. We are killing many of the gay ones who are still being forced to grow up feeling that they are lepers from another age. Only through gays being equal and a part of American life can these children be free to be themselves.


Thursday, March 21, 2013

Mike Nova: "Life is the most dramatic of all dramas. Life is a mother and the God of all dramas, in their search for perfect communications."

Mike Nova: Life is the most dramatic of all dramas. Life is a mother and the God of all dramas, in their search for perfect communications.


RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: Gleb Pavlovsky likes a link. "Пидарас. Конченый."

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: Gleb Pavlovsky likes a link. "Пидарас. Конченый.": By the way, I came to the conclusion (although I am not completely sure if it is correct or not), that Gleb Pavlovskiy is a KGB plant a...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: 3.21.13 - This is an example of Russian mentality:...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: 3.21.13 - This is an example of Russian mentality:...: Mike Nova  shared  Ирина Шадрина 's  status . March 17 "И при этом, наш мелкий питерский ворюга, по ходу оказался пе...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: Gleb Pavlovsky likes a link: "Пидарас. Конченый."

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: Gleb Pavlovsky likes a link: "Пидарас. Конченый.": Gleb Pavlovsky  likes a  link . Options Сергей Лунин Каюсь. Грешен. Об этом существе я писал хорошие слова. Пидарас. Кон...

Surfer Boy


Surfer Boy

Photo


AUGUSTUS CAESAR PRAETORIA



Mike Nova shared À la rencontre de l’Empire Romain - Vaison la Romaine's photo.
February 24
AUGUSTUS CAESAR PRAETORIA


Photo: AUGUSTUS CAESAR PRAETORIA


GAY DEITIES (94 photos)



GAY DEITIES (94 photos)
The thunder of waves is caused by the herd of "hippocampus" sea-serpent horses of Neptune/Poseidon. In Ancient Greece and Rome, everyone (including Antinous and Hadrian) knew that Neptune had sex with another marine male deity, Nerites, who was said to be the handsomest of all males on Earth, in the Heavens or in the Seas. The sexual union of Poseidon/Neptune and Nerites produced Anteros, god of requited love ....


Photo: The thunder of waves is caused by the herd of "hippocampus" sea-serpent horses of Neptune/Poseidon. In Ancient Greece and Rome, everyone (including Antinous and Hadrian) knew that Neptune had sex with another marine male deity, Nerites, who was said to be the handsomest of all males on Earth, in the Heavens or in the Seas. The sexual union of Poseidon/Neptune and Nerites produced Anteros, god of requited love ....


Photo: Flamen Antonyus Subia says ....
"Antinous is the Spirit of Homosexuality...he is a person and a name that has been used to describe a feeling that glows within us, a unifying force that we all share in common. Homosexuality existed long before Antinous was born, but Antinous is the only person who was ever consecrated as a god for being a gay man. Antinous is the only person for whom temples and sacred statues were created to receive the devotion of gay men. 

"Antinous represents a time when being gay was once considered a sacred thing, and now, as the world begins to change...Antinous deserves to be recognized as a crucial element in our ancient gay spirituality, because he represents so many beautiful, mysterious forces within us. 

"And by opening our heart to Antinous, we can begin to unfold the beauty of gay spirituality within ourselves."

Animula vagula, blandula...



Mike Nova shared Enjolras Hugo's photo.
Photo: « Animula vagula, blandula,
Hospes comesque corporis
Quae nunc abibis in loca
Pallidula, rigida, nudula,
Nec, ut soles, dabis iocos... »


« Animula vagula, blandula,
Hospes comesque corporis
Quae nunc abibis in loca
Pallidula, rigida, nudula,
Nec, ut soles, dabis iocos... »



 Душа, очаровательная странница,
Гостья ты тела и попутчица,
Куда сейчас пойдёшь? В края
Блёклые, застывшие, пустынные -
Нет больше дней веселья...


Адриан, перевод Mike Nova.




THE LION HUNT

The Lion Hunt 
short story

NEODOBRITELNOYE NO S LUBOVYU

To my son Michael Jr

NEODOBRITELNOYE NO S LUBOVYU

Probuy ti pivo i sushi ti zhuy
Russkoy Ameriki glavniy burzhuy

Znatok vsekh blud i luchshikh vin
Nash Noviy Russkiy Burzhuin!


Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Before he became Pope Francis, Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio navigated the poli...

Before he became Pope Francis, Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio navigated the poli...: Before he became Pope Francis, Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio navigated the politics of gay marriage by advocating that the church in Argentina support the idea of civil unions for gay couples.


On Gay Unions, a Pragmatist Before He Was a Pope
www.nytimes.com
By suggesting in 2010 that the church in Argentina support civil unions for gay couples, Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio revealed himself to be a deal maker willing to compromise.

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: 3.20.13 - Mike Nova: "Tandem" is very much alive a...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: 3.20.13 - Mike Nova: "Tandem" is very much alive a...: Mike Nova: "Tandem" is very much alive and well: some thoughts on current political situation in Russia Medvedev's positi...

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

NEWS: 3.19.13 - Despite US change, Russia sticks to miss...

NEWS: 3.19.13 - Despite US change, Russia sticks to miss...: MIKE NOVA'S STARRED ITEMS Despite US change, Russia sticks to missile-shield demand - The Star Online via  Russia - Goo...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: "I felt that something did arise in me..." - Серге...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: "I felt that something did arise in me..." - Серге...: Сергей Словалкер ‎"во мне вдруг что-то шевельнулось но я как опытный рыбак не дёрнул сразу а помедлил о чём в дальнейшем пожал...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: 3.12 - 3.19.13: Russia and The West's Facebook Wal...

RUSSIA and THE WEST - РОССИЯ и ЗАПАД: 3.12 - 3.19.13: Russia and The West's Facebook Wal...: 3.12 - 3.19.13: Russia and The West's Facebook Wall Review MIKE NOVA'S STARRED ITEMS (title unknown) via  Russia...

International Marriage Equality Map


via Towleroad News #gay by Andy Towle on 3/19/13
Marriage

map of laws establishing marriage equality for gay couples around the world.